HELP! Tell me I'm not emotionless

Even if i barely laugh at your jokes
Even if your incessant laughter fails to infect me
Even if your shocking news causes me to only say "oo",
Even if after you've poured your heart out and all i could muster is a weak smile.

I wanted to hug you, but i dared not.
I wanted to laugh out loud, but i just could not.
I wanted to tell you what i thought of it, but i was afraid.
I wanted so much to be that pillar of strength you so needed then, but i just lost all words,
I was blank, once again.

I can't help but notice how emotionless i have become over the past few years. Read me right, I am NOT totally emotionless, just maybe emotionless to some, full of emotion to others? Sound's like my emotions have moods too. Funny thing, but to some people, its almost impossible to allow my true emotions to show, even to hug them feels weird. But to selected few, its just so natural, i'm probably only my truest then.

Sometimes theres so much going through my mind, but i just don't know where to start, i don't know how to tell you. Sometimes i don't even know if i want to tell you. I feel so bad for not sharing my opinions, but i go blank so often, its not that i don't want to but rather i can't. Makes me feel utterly useless, its like my very existence there is as good as invisible. I hate disappointing you, yet its so hard not too. I keep feeling so incompetent , you probably already thought of it before i even said anything.

Yet, know that i truly cherish you. I wouldn't trade anything for you, the friendship you gave me is what i look forward to everyday. Even though my expressions betray my emotions most of the time, know that deep inside i really want to
laugh aloud at your antics and jokes
hug you tightly and tell you how much i care
point out what i thought was weird
and let you in on my deepest secrets.

Tell me again that i'm not emotionless. I only hide my emotions really well, because being vulnerable is like having the 3 football fields thick wall around you suddenly smashed.

You know whats hard when doing a tag?....its the caption and reasoning part. The tag is usually relatively easy, especially the one below. But to reason when the results are just so absolutely silly and have nothing to do with the question..hmph, thats the difficult part. And theres the part where the answers' scream your true feelings....don't you just feel like fabricating those results to save yourslf from the interrogations later on? heheheh

tagged by Aaron:

Put your iTunes/any other players on shuffle.
II. For each question, press the next button to get your answer.
III. YOU MUST WRITE THAT SONG NAME DOWN NO MATTER HOW SILLY IT SOUNDS!
IV. Tag 11 friends who might enjoy doing this.

1. IF SOMEONE SAYS "IS THIS OKAY" YOU SAY?
Er Zuo Ju (prank)

2. WHAT WOULD BEST DESCRIBE YOUR PERSONALITY?
bu neng geng ni fen shou (can't stand breaking up with you)-----?????

3. WHAT DO YOU LIKE IN A GUY/GIRL?
here in my home ----aiyor, sound so wrong!

4. HOW DO YOU FEEL TODAY?
carry you home----huh?

5. WHAT IS YOUR LIFE'S PURPOSE?
someday i will understand----yer so depressing wan.

6. WHAT IS YOUR MOTTO?
ultimate you----hmh, being true to oneself, maybe?

7. WHAT DO YOUR FRIENDS THINK OF YOU?
better than me----wahahahha

8. WHAT DO YOU THINK OF YOUR PARENTS?
enchanted: thats how you know .....lol. i don't know.

9. WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT VERY OFTEN?
too little to late-----sigh, regrets...ain't it disheartening?

10. WHAT IS 2+2?
run into your arms-----i.am.speechless.

11. WHAT DO YOU THINK OF YOUR BEST FRIEND?
the potential break up song----ouch, that really HURTS!!

12. WHAT DO YOU THINK OF THE PERSON YOU LIKE?
i think i love you---at least got berkaitan with the question.

13. WHAT DO YOUR PARENTS THINK OF YOU?
SMS----i like to sms a lot?...true also

14. WHAT WILL YOU DANCE TO AT YOUR WEDDING?
hoy me voy .........erm, i don't even know what it means.

15. WHAT WILL THEY PLAY AT YOUR FUNERAL?
shut up and drive ...ahahahha, shut up n drive safely to the funeral parlour!

16. WHAT IS YOUR HOBBY/INTEREST?
goodbye's the saddest word-----wouldn't it be better if these was (15)'s answer?..hmph

17. WHAT IS YOUR BIGGEST SECRET?
pokarekare ana

18. WHAT DO YOU THINK OF YOUR FRIENDS?
wo men zhen me le ......aduh, why does all my answers bend towards the negative??!

19. WHAT'S THE WORST THING THAT COULD HAPPEN?
first love

20. HOW WILL YOU DIE?
sidewalks-----ouch this is sad!

21. DOES ANYONE LIKE YOU?
too much to ask----yea, private question. LOL

22. IF YOU COULD GO BACK IN TIME, WHAT WOULD YOU CHANGE?
autumn in my heart...HUH?

23. WHAT HURTS RIGHT NOW?
savages---hahahahaha

24. WHAT WILL YOU POST THIS AS?
keep holding on---awwww


LOL my results are just so freaking silly, not to mention so tak berkaitan!

People I'd like to tag (In no order of preference ) :
1) aiyor
2) whoever
3) feels
4) that
5) urge
6) to
7) do
8) this
9) interestingly
10) lame
11) tag.

SO you go blog hopping? I do to. In fact I think its a very exciting pastime, good or bad, it depends. If you have assignments and you're blog hopping then, nay, it ain't good. But if you happen to be very, absolutely free, then by all means=)

Why do I think its really exciting? Because I always stumble upon interesting reads, thought-provoking posts, inspiring works or glimpses of friends I haven't heard from for ages! Remember those 'kotak hitam' experiments we use to do in school? Blog hopping to me is like when you put your hand in that tiny hole at the top of the box, then you wiggle your way around trying to guess whats in it, and it usually turns out differently. It's like > *SURPRISE*< at the end of the hopping.

So nosy. Me ? Not that I'm a busy body, I'm not interested at what you've been up to (if you're not my friend), I just like looking for good reads, good pictures and ideas. And, hey, you put that blog up here, its not surprising if I stumble upon it, right am i?

Anyway, its funny how I go to peoples blogs and find out things I never knew, even if I sort-of-knew them for as long as I was in school. Back then, the only conversations we exchanged would be the occasional 'hi!', or the 'could you pick my pen for me please?' and neither would say anymore. Funny. Pathetic.

Then I go on further, and I discover they, who hardly spoke to one another then, whom no one would have guessed they would be at the same place, save at school; now in the same picture, posing with friends whom I know not. No, it wasn't a class picture of any sort. It was at an event that has nothing to do with college. So, they had something in common after all!

I look at the friends list, and pick out a name or two that I think I might know. Sometimes I guess right, sometimes it turns out to be a completely different person, sometimes its people I don't know after all. But even at these certain person I-do-not-know's blog, I find out he/she and I have a common friend! Small world right?

Lemme tell you again....blog hopping IS fun! Just know when to and when not. Self-discipline people! Me is still learning that;)